Conflict-to-Connection Drill

Turn real friction into forward motion. In this 2-day sprint, you’ll take one recent, real-world disagreement and transform it into a clear, mutual next step. Day 1 equips you to deconstruct the conflict—pinpoint triggers, name emotions, and script your listening lines. Day 2 puts it on the field: you’ll run a live reset conversation using mirror → label → pause to earn a clean “That’s right,” then secure a specific, dated action and send a short written recap. The result is less defensiveness, more alignment, and measurable psychological safety. Built to strengthen the Attractive Character: Clarity of Vision & Communication • Relationships & Influence • Integrity & Decision Making • Public Speaking & Presence • Charisma & Demeanor. What you’ll do Analyze one real conflict to spot patterns and costs. Practice non-defensive listening (mirror, label, 3-second pause). Hold a reset conversation that ends in a voluntary next step. Lock the agreement with a written recap and review date. Measurable outcomes 1 clean “That’s right” captured in the live conversation. 1 concrete, dated next step agreed by both parties. Recap sent within 24 hours, improving trust and follow-through.